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  • Modern Dating Tips: A Date is NOT You Coming Over Making Butt-Prints on My Sofa!
    The first thing some men do after first meeting and talking on the phone a time or two is press for an invitation to a woman's home? A "no, I don't know you well enough yet" response may cause such a man to press even harder and become downright irritated at your refusal to give him what he wants. What is behind this very common behavior pattern, and what should a woman do to counter it?
  • Gross and Disgusting Dating Behaviors - Volume 1
    Have you ever dated someone who had an annoyingly irritating habit that kept you from pursuing a relationship? Something so seemingly silly, small and insignificant, yet it so just totally turned you off that you knew instantly that you'd never be able to look at him the same way ever again? Here is a hilarious collection of such dating faux pas that led to the instant demise of budding love.
  • Shyness and Dating: Why Shy Men Need to Suck it Up, Man Up, and Go for the Gold!
    A male buddy and I were discussing the issue of men approaching women at parties and nightclubs. I couldn't understand why they stand around gawking, but not speaking to the ladies. Insecurity has no place in romance! If you want to win the gold medal, you gotta get in the game. Shy guys need to man up and speak up!
  • Rejection - Why It Hurts and What To Do About The Pain
    Rejection...when it hurts, it hurts like HELL. For most humans, rejection leaves one swimming in a sea of diminished self worth. Society is quick to recognize the physical and emotional pain men inflict on women, but somehow fails to understand the pain women often inflict on men.
  • Forgiving Infidelity and Cheating - Can We Really Forget?
    Contrary to popular opinion, men are not always the blame when it comes to infidelity in a relationship. Cheating tendencies are not gender related. To the men that have accused me of being an angry woman, a male basher, or a woman with issues, this article addresses this subject equivalently. Cheating and infidelity is a two way street.
  • Why "Nice Guys" Suck and Women Don't Want You
    In the world of male/female romantic relationships, females do the choosing. Women respond most positively to men that exhibit specific behavioral attitudes and qualities. Nice guys feel that women should choose them. Wrong! Let me tell you why guys perceived to be "too nice" get passed over for exciting guys with a bad boy edge
  • Be The Man Your Woman Needs to Dump Proof Your Relationship
    Women today are definitely strong and very independent, but that that mean that we don't need the emotional and physical support of our men? If you're a guy that believes a modern woman doesn't need you in any way, and you use that as an excuse to avoid giving of yourself, you're treading on dangerous ground. And you'll be dumped soon...
  • First Date Disasters and Why You Didn't Get a Second Date
    It's common to hear single men and women say they are tired of dating. They've gone out a few times and run into some serious knuckleheads; folks with no manners, that say stupid things, do stupid things, or with whom there is just no chemistry. If you have a hard time getting a second date, take a moment to examine your behavior and make sure you aren't making these dating blunders!
  • Parental Relationship Soured Over Interracial Romance
    Interracial relationships, though quite commonplace, are still confusing to many parents, and downright frowned upon by others. Does love really come painted in a specific color? The issue is examined in this parent/teen conflict.
  • The Real Purpose of A Relationship
    I don't know about you, but I am tired of reading articles and discussion forum posts involving gender blaming, race blaming, and society blaming and why we can't have successful relationships. Why don't we collectively as human beings take accountability for our ills?
  • Everything Old is New Again: 21st-Century Dating Rules for Men
    No matter what your reason for wanting to get back into the dating scene, you need to go into battle armed with knowledge about how things are done these days. Avoid being put into "the friend zone" with these dating tips.
  • One-Sided Love - When You Love Someone That Can't or Won't Love You Back
    Lots of singles fall in with the expectation that their beloved is going to love them back...somehow, some way, someday. When it doesn't happen they vow to love even harder, and ultimately in more pain. So you don't waste your time, let's explore why some people are afraid to fall in love.
  • That Dreaded "C" Word - Men and Commitment
    Are there really specific things a woman should be looking for or examining early on in a relationship so that she can wisely determine if a guy is a committer or a non-committer? My answer to you ladies is "YES, there are!" You gotta know what the signs are and what it means if your honey is stalling on taking that next step to a commitment. Let's discuss them.
  • Infidelity and Cheating: How You Can Tell If Your Man is Cheating on You!
    I often receive letters from heartbroken women, sick with worry that their boyfriends or husbands are cheating on them. The cheating itself seems to hurt them deeply, as it indicates a violation of the marital vows the wife holds dear, but I think its the lying which accompanies the cheating that is the most destructive element in the whole horrible situation.
  • Unconditional Love - A Realistic Relationship Goal or a Romantic Fantasy?
    Unconditional love... does it exist in adult romantic relationships or not? Does it make sense to expect to be given unconditional love in the context of a dating relationship or marriage? The author shares her perspective on the concept of unconditional love and whether seeking it is unrealistic folly or a love we should all strive to give.
  • Are You Wasting Your Time Loving "Suckas?"
    Sadly, many singles confuse the lies and manipulative games of a sucka with a real, solid loving relationship. Blinded by romance, passion and dreams of happily ever after, many men and women open their hearts, minds, homes and wallets to suckas. Advice columnist Deborrah Cooper provides tips to help you recognize a sucka before you get hurt!
  • 10 Reasons Why Men Don't Like Dating Single Moms
    Divorce rates in the U.S. hover at the 50% mark, and more children than ever being raised by one parent. The possibility that a bachelor will run across a single Mom are very high. But many refuse to date a woman with children, and have a long list of reasons they feel such a relationship is more trouble than its worth.
  • Why Dating is a Sport - Just Like Fishing!
    Have any of you ladies ever gone hunting or fishing? You should try it sometimes. It is a study in patience, planning and understanding the male mind. See, we can go to the grocery store and buy perfectly acceptable fish for $6.95 per pound that is already cleaned, boned and ready to eat. But men want excitement, to experience the thrill of winning and the memories and stories of the battle!
  • Sailing The Seven C's Of Love!
    There are seven primary behavioral patterns which dictate the success or failure of a romantic partnership. To encourage honest communication, respectful treatment and unyielding commitment to your relationship, it is important to consider these points when speaking with or interacting with your partner.
  • Breaking Up On the Down Low - How and Why Men Sneak Out of Relationships
    This is how a man eases out of a relationship without actually telling you that he's going. He wants you to get a clue, stand up for and respect yourself and for YOU to break it off. He doesn't want to be the bad guy and experience a direct confrontation. It seems he's hoping you won't notice that he is on his way out - and many women don't!
  • Breaking Up and Divorce - Sometimes Love Hurts
    What do you do when you lose someone you really loved? How do you handle the feeling of emptiness and sooth your aching heart? Love is a wonderful feeling, but why is it that when love leaves, it hurts so much that you can't even cry?
  • The ABC's of Dating - 10 Tips for Getting the Ball Rolling in Romance!
    This article answers 10 frequently asked dating questions: What should I be looking for? What does dating mean really? I'm very shy and don't know what to talk about on a date! Are men always obligated to pay? How long should the date last...I don't want to wear out my welcome! How can I know if this is someone I should see again or leave alone?
  • Why Women Ruin Relationships By Talking Too Much
    Women can't stand empty silences and will often fill the quiet with tidbits of information about their past, laying them out like an offering to the Gods. Why clog a man's brain with information that will do nothing but make him jealous, cause him to question your past, or make him feel insecure about a future with you? Really, it would be best if women learned to shut up sometimes!
  • The Importance Of Accepting Others For Who And What They Are
    Women often enter into relationships thinking "hmm, he has this wrong and I wish that was different... but I can change him, then he'll be perfect!" Men enter into relationships hoping the woman they fell in love with NEVER changes. He wants to feel the way he does right now about her and the relationship forever! Let's explore this interesting gender conflict.
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