If you and your partner are not yet 100% convinced about taking part in sex games to help improve your sexual relationship and increase your level of intimacy, all you need to do is to start slow and begin with sex games that are `non-threatening'.
You see, most couples equate sex games immediately with bondage, whipping, giving up control to your partner, and the like. And although there is a bit of the `giving up control' part, it really doesn't have to be in a threatening way. The best way for you to start appreciating what sex games can do for your relationship is to start with `level A' or `beginner' sex games.
Beginner Sex Games You Can Try Tonight!
THE A-B-C GAME
The object of this game is to pay attention to the different parts of your lover's body that starts with each letter of the alphabet. The easiest, and least threatening, way to start this sex game is to MASSAGE these body parts. For example, you can massage her Ankle, and then move on to massager her Back, and then move on to massage her Calves. You get a point for each letter of the alphabet you are able to massage.
Now, it's your partner's turn. She gets a point too for each body part massaged. At the end of the sex game, the one with the most points wins! The winner gets to indicate to his/her partner that ONE sex fantasy that he/she has always been dreaming of and the other partner needs to comply and help bring this sex fantasy to life.
HOT Variation Tip #1: If you guys are more daring, then don't massage each body part as you do the A-B-C game... lick each other's body parts instead.
HOT Variation Tip #2: To make the game more fun and exciting, have two bowls or buckets next to you. One bowl has the letters A-Z, the other has action words such as massage, lick, caress, use a feather, use your hair, use a sex toy, nibble, suck, etc. Now you can end up massaging one body part, licking another, caressing another part, and so on.
CREATING A STORY
The object of this sex game is to create a lustful story that you both end up fulfilling in the end. You must provide answers to Who, What, Where, When and How. For example, you may say...
Who: you and me
What: make love
Where: on the floor
When: tonight
How: doggy-style
Create as many scenarios as you can starting with `easy ones' like the one outlined above. Put all these scenarios in a fish bowl or some other wicked container and then when the mood strikes, simply whip out a `story' and do it tonight!
HOT Variation Tip #1: Use two containers, one with X-Rated scenarios and one with XXX-You-Gotta-Be-Kidding-Rated ones! When you guys are ready to progress to more daring sex games, simply take out a scenario from the triple X rated bowl.
STRIP POKER
Who can resist such a classic sex game? Before you start though, be clear with what the winner is entitled too at the end of the game. For instance, does the winner get to `demand' a service from the loser, or does the winner get `full access' to the loser?
With strip poker, simply play poker and for every hand or round where one loses, he or she should remove a piece of clothing. The game ends when one of the players has absolutely nothing else to take off.
HOT Variation Tip #1: Instead of playing poker, you can play chess instead and assign a penalty for each chess piece captured. For example, every captured pawn means a French kiss, every captured knight means a lick for 5 minutes, and others.
HOT Variation Tip #2: For the really daring couples, play strip poker or naughty chess with swingers!
LET THE FAITHS DECIDE
For this game, you need dice and two sheets of paper. Number each sheet from 1-6. On one sheet, assign body parts. On the other sheet assign action words like suck, lick, massage, bite, etc. Roll the dice and see which body part is the object of the sexual activity. Roll the dice again to see which activity should be performed.
HOT Variation Tip #1: Add a third sheet that indicates time such as 30 seconds, 2 minutes, 10 minutes, and others.
HOT Variation Tip #2: Change sheet # 2 with more aggressive sexual activities such as penetrate, go oral, and others.
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